The Thrill of the Story

There is thrill in story. Someone famous (I don't quite remember who... But they were famous) said the words, "Only begin, and the mind grows heated." It's true. Start a story, and suddenly, the floodgates open. All it takes is the courage to write down a name. And then there's a sentence connected to the name. Suddenly, a paragraph pops up. Pretty soon, you've got a book.

Start a story. It's thrilling.

Books

One of the best things about winter is being trapped inside with a book.

 Books take you places you've always wanted to go but never been. They take you far away, to lands never heard of. They rouse your emotions and remind of all that is worth living for. They sidetrack you from what you're supposed to be doing, and prepare you to start afresh.

Get trapped with a book. I highly recommend it.

It Feels Great

You know that feeling when you get really excited about something? When you want to leap from your seat, and jump and dance and sing, no matter who is watching? Well. I'm feeling that right now. For a wide variety of reasons. And you should feel it sometime soon too, because it's wonderful. Let me see if I can help.

You. You are great. Yes, you. You were created by God for a purpose, and He loves you so much. No matter what you do, He will love you, and care for you, everywhere you go. And He will be your best friend. Just because He loves you.

You know how it feels when your dad gives you a huge hug? That's like how God's love feels. It feels great.

You know how it feels like when you come home from a long day of hard stuff, and your mom made you cookies? That's how God's love feels. It feels great.

 God loves you.

It's great.

Sometimes

Sometimes the best things in the world are the things that don't come easy. 

Sometimes the best relationships you have are the ones you wait for, or work through time and again.
Sometimes the people you love the most are the ones who you struggle with, get hurt by, and have to pray about again and again and again.
Sometimes, you don't want to do one thing in particular, and you want to give up on everything in common, and crawl into a hole for about a lifetime. But sometimes, when you go against those urges and stick it out, it pays off.
Actually, most of the time.

Expertise

I'm supposed to be writing about charm. I can't do that right now. I'm not thinking about charm. I'm thinking about expertise. About picking a something, and becoming an expert at it, no matter what it is.

Then, once you're an expert at something, you should operate there. For instance, a business full of people operating at top capacity in their realm of expertise will be exponentially more successful than a group of people thrown together helter-skelter, willy-nilly.

Become an expert at something.

Then, do it!

Just Write (Right?)

Sometimes you sit down to write, and nothing comes out. You stare at the screen, feeling like you just ran the trash cans out to the street 3 minutes after pickup. Disappointed. Defeated.

This is when all the best writers say to write something, regardless of what it is.
For instance, your trip to the grocery store yesterday, and your encounter with the cashier whose sole goal in life was to engage you in a tedious conversation about a sale on soap in aisle 5. 
The cloud you saw this morning, that looked suspiciously like the Uncle Willis you remember as a kid, beard and all.
About how last night, you went downstairs for a drink in the dark. On your way back, you mistook the coat rack for a 12 armed monster, and you sprinted up 22 stairs in 2.7 seconds. World record beaten, surely.
You see, it doesn't really matter how ready you are to write, or what you write about. It matters that you write. You'll find all sorts of database from your experiences. Go ahead. Write about them. We'll be entertained, and you'll be whetting your talent.
Try it. Write something. Write (right) now. 
(Pun intended.)

Joy and Pain

Someone asked me what two words define my life. I settled on beauty and joy.

Beauty, because everything is beautiful. There is beauty in the slums, there is beauty in colorless places, there is some speck of beauty everywhere. I was people to see that beauty, and so see the God who made it.

Joy, because life is joy. Love is joy. God is joy. Many people don't realize this. I want them to. I want people to laugh, and to laugh hard, until the tears roll down their cheeks from sheer pure enjoyment. I want to see joy. Because joy is health. And wealth. And happiness.

What are your two words? Think about them. Define them. Live them.

It could make all the difference.

Tears

Sometimes all you need to do is cry. And cry. And cry. Then, once the tears are gone, everything becomes clear.

Tears help because sometimes, we just need to let go. And cry. And not worry about appearances. And cry.

Tears are cleansing. They're the first sign of healing, of feeling enough to let go, and beginning to recover.

The shedding of tears signifies the shedding of remorse, the shedding of pain, the shedding of hurt feelings.

Saltwater is cleansing. Tears are mingled with salt. They clean the heart to feel, the emotions to think, and the face to boot.

I don't cry very often. Maybe I should. Maybe you should cry sometimes too. It's a very helpful thing.

Sounds

Rain beating the walls of my bedroom sings me to sleep some nights. The complete silence of snow brings peace. Crashes of thunder remind me of a God in control of the universe.

Eggs frying make me hungry. Coffee dripping into the pot reminds me of an early morning adventure. The scrape of spatula meeting griddle brings to mind a full house, family, and joy.

Laughter makes me happy. Crying makes me sad. Whispering makes me want to tell warm happy secrets.

God's given us ears for a reason, to hear His sounds.

Listening?

Resolutions

We all make them. Webster defines them as firm decisions to do or not do something. We promise that this year will be different, this year we will do what we have failed to accomplish in years past.

We will work out daily, read 24 constructive classics, visit 2 continents, and make better friends with the neighbors. To help ourselves, we make lists with bullet points, due dates, and rewards. We tell our friends what we're going to do, task them to hold us accountable, and jump in head first. Resolutions fixed upon, preparations made, moral support commissioned.

Sometimes, we even finish what we started.

Resolutions take work. Just like work takes work. Good stuff doesn't come easy. Make your resolutions. Write down goals. Shoot big. Aim high. And do them.

Cause good stuff is worth the work it takes to get there.